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Female Orgasm [May. 2nd, 2007|03:08 pm]
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Did that grab your attention? This is basically a question directed to all my female friends and readers. What constitutes a countable orgasm? I talk to women and read journals and hear "oh, I had 5 or 6 or 10 orgasms". So what makes it count? Is it the quivering? Is it the almost, but lost it feeling? I would think it was the end product when she screams and says "don't touch it anymore". I'm all for giving a woman as many orgasm's as possible and need some input on how to do it. Should I get you to almost peak and stop? Give me some pointers. As a guy I orgasm once and its over, well for awhile anyway, so I'm not versed in multiples. Any input is greatly appreciated! As a side note, whats the most you've had at one time?
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From: bodybelowyou
2007-05-02 09:41 pm (UTC)
women know when it happens,
like your whole body contracts, and it's just an oh god moment.
plus, ours feel better, if you base it nerve wise, we've got more in our clit than the entire penis has.
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From: u_ravenous_girl
2007-05-02 11:53 pm (UTC)
if a guy only almost lets me peak and then stops, I would be pissed off! :P

I definitely don't count the almost but lost it feelings. I just leave it for a few minutes and then try again.

For me it's basically just like...an internal explosion. Not a huge one, well, unless it's been building up for a while.

I get the most orgasms when I have something inside me and my clit is being stimulated. The most I've had on my own is 10 and the most I've had with a guy is 5. He just kept licking my pussy over and over again. :)
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[User Picture]From: potonica
2007-05-03 02:39 am (UTC)
So im going to post here even if you dont know me because I am glad you are asking about how to satisfy the opposite sex so.....

The key to a great orgasm is the foreplay. You must pet the kitty and you must tease the kittty or else it wont be happy! Please dont jam your fist finger or any other foreign object you must start slow and if she asks for it rough then you proceed with caution. Another very important aspect is moisture! If the sex is too dry than it fucking hurts like hell so get yourself some KY jelly ,and use that as an excuse for foreplay use it right before you start foreplay and right before you insert your penis.The wetter it is the better it feels! Thirdly it is easiest for women to reach orgasm when they are ontop. IF she is too shy coax her into getting ontop. While shes on top grab her by the waist and sort of grind into her,that will stimulate the clit. Also dont neglect the nipples and breast play with them as much as you. Hope fully this will all result in the big O!

So I hope this helps and always practise safe sex!
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From: doom_kitten1
2007-05-03 02:46 am (UTC)
Ok, I normally don't comment but that's a good question. Hmm..I'd say most in one night 3-6. But that all depended on, well, other things, you know. And if my partner had enough to go again after a break.
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[User Picture]From: romanticslut
2007-05-05 01:39 am (UTC)
It's the actual orgasm that you count. I'm not sure how else to describe it. I count each individual climax. I shake and quiver the whole way up and much of the way down, but it's the climax that counts as a countable orgasm. It's like trying to explain what a sneeze feels like - really hard to do. However, if you don't know what the signals are for the woman you're with (and women have different orgasm-effects), then you really need to sit down and talk to her about it.

I'm all for giving a woman as many orgasm's as possible and need some input on how to do it. Should I get you to almost peak and stop?

Well if you get to the almost peak and then stop, it's not really an orgasm, is it. Therefore you're not giving her as many as possible, but delaying them so that you can instead give her one big finale at the end.

Orgasm control can be helpful for some women to establish multiples, but with some women, if you just *stop*, it goes away completely and can't get back. That's why discussing it with your partner is important. Some women believe they can't have multiples either, but it takes practice.

Give me some pointers.

I'm not sure what pointers I could give you except learn what she likes and then do *that*. Really, it's so different for every woman - and most of us try to make it easy, give it away with moans or grinds or whatever. But some guys feel they have to pull out every trick in their arsenal in one sitting, and a lot of times women don't want a bunch of different maneuvers, toys, whatever. It's like, damn already, just stop fiddling around and do what you were doing when I cried, "Oh yes, god, do that!"

Some women aren't ready for multiples because they can't handle the level of intensity one feels when taken over by many climaxes. I know that was my problem for a long while, is I just couldn't let go that much. I could do it once, but then my poor clit needed to rest. Eventually I felt comfortable enough with someone that I felt safe 'pushing through' it so to speak. I hear that a lot of times women who have some past abuse could have this kind of problem either with orgasming at all or with multiple orgasms. The key is to make sure she feels safe, comfortable, loved, & beautiful, and then let her indulge in all her favorites. Let her know ahead of time, in a nice, sexy way, "I want to make you come all night long tonight."

Make it interactive. If she starts showing signs that she's into it, ask her, "Mmmm, you look like you like that" or "Want it even harder?" My personal favorite is when my Love gets me off once or twice with his hand, then says, "You feel so wet and yummy, I've got to taste it" and goes down on me for another great O. The mental part, and the way he looks at me and licks his lips...oh, that's enough to send me over the edge again if I'm still hot enough.

One of my favorite tricks is taking a guy's hand - or better yet, his dick! - with my hand and showing him what gets me off. That's always hot, so long as the guy's paying attention and does it the way I show him.

As a guy I orgasm once and its over, well for awhile anyway, so I'm not versed in multiples.

Not necessarily. Guys can have multiples. Luckily, it, too, takes practice. :D

As a side note, whats the most you've had at one time?

I find that my counting abilities suffer when I orgasm. I tried keeping count during an all-nighter once, and I lost track at 19.
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[User Picture]From: these7ensins
2007-05-09 09:58 am (UTC)
It's all about keeping the intense rising of an orgasm going.. to back off at the point of cumming.. and I mean when the females on the edge.
Any feeling such as touch, breath etc is maximised 100 times when a womans pussy is swollen and soaking wet.
A womans mind starts to head towards a euphoric space, her body is a perspiring quivering mess and speach becomes a problem (for me anyway, i'm quite vocal)
I like to take myself to the edge as many times as possible until my clit is a dark pink, raging little hardon just screaming to be released.
It's a good old process and very enjoyable, takes a lot of time also if you do it right.
I love soft yet fast licks and then to be bitten or nibbled as the approaching orgasm tempts me to take it.

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[User Picture]From: coureuse
2007-05-16 08:41 am (UTC)
the almost but lost it feeling does not count....

don't get to my peak and then stop. it's okay to hold me at peak, or back off just enough that when you touch again it's even more intense than before...

But if you stop at the stage where it's time to come NOW.... it will be gone. For good, til next time. That also happens if you push too hard.

Someone said that a woman knows when she comes. I didn't for a long time. But when I got it, they just felt better, 'cause I know what to pay attention to. Sometimes I can't tell if I have or haven't... if there's a cock in me... I just can't tell sometimes if i came or just got close. It's weird!
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From: sanssteakdrapes
2007-07-05 07:38 pm (UTC)
I only count the actual vagina contracting, "Oh my fucking god", orgasm orgams. I think girls say shit like that just to make men feel better. I've had two, one from oral and another one from actual penetration. It takes me too long to reach peak again and my cooter (which is already very small to begin with) does this thing right before I orgasm where it tightens up something fierce and my husband can't take it so he usually comes either with me or right after I do. A good thing to do when your getting a girl off is have her tell you a few seconds before she is a about to come, stop for about 5-10 seconds, go again until she peaks, stop again, and then go again, third times a charm. Her orgasm will be much more intense. It's about quality, not quantity.
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[User Picture]From: haelmoro
2007-07-23 10:57 pm (UTC)
I am a woman who actually has a hard time believing in multiple orgasms. I mean, I do trust that other women who have them know fully what an orgasm is. I suppose I'm just frustrated because I have a ridiculously difficult time orgasming at all, and not for lack of trying. I do know that no woman would accept the almost but lost it feeling, because that's awfully frustrating. Especially with me, because for me it's one shot and you're done for a while. But if I get a strong one, I definitely need the touching to stop right afterwards, ha.
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From: pinknails111
2007-11-14 05:26 pm (UTC)
with the little experience I have: it's a feeling, you just know. i was shocked when i found out i could squirt and not orgasm. it was actually kind of a hassel...squiting takes a lot out of a girl. :)
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[User Picture]From: tryn_make_me
2007-11-14 05:34 pm (UTC)
I love when a girl squirts...
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From: pinknails111
2007-11-14 05:38 pm (UTC)

good...

i can get messy.
:P
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[User Picture]From: tryn_make_me
2007-11-14 05:59 pm (UTC)

Re: good...

The messier the better, I used to date girl who was an amzing squirter. We had to get one of those lined mattress pads.
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From: pinknails111
2007-11-14 06:06 pm (UTC)

:D

still haven't gotten one of those. i just do lots of laundry.
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[User Picture]From: tryn_make_me
2007-11-14 06:19 pm (UTC)

Re: :D

Yeah, we did lots of that...
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